Archive for February, 2009

Pregnancy-and-Adoption Writers

Friday, February 27th, 2009

Well…who are we?

Female, 24, single. Male, 25, single. Male, 24, single. Female, 52, married. Male, 52, married (to the 52 year old female who happens to be six months older…just for the record).

Why do we write?

Because we believe that adoption into loving Christian families offers the best opportunity for children to experience successful outcomes in life. We come from a broad range of Christian denominations, but believe the facts are in…life begins at conception and it is not a matter of religious faith…it’s a matter of fact.

If life begins at conception, then parenting or adoption are the only two options for any individual who believes that human life is only God’s for the taking. Accurate adoption information may be hard to come by, if you avoid asking the professionals. So…ask the professionals!

Visit us at www.NewBeginningsAdooptions.org

Elisabeth Elliot on Abortion

Sunday, February 22nd, 2009

I get an Elisabeth Elliot devotion every day in my email. Today’s was interesting. It came from Ms. Elliot’s book, On Asking God Why, and was on the issue of abortion. I wanted to share it and have posted hi-lights from the devotion below. Thanks to God for people like Elisabeth Elliot to speak out.

Person or Thing?

“Not long ago Time magazine reported another triumph of modern medical technology. An unborn child, found, by means of a process called amniocentesis, to suffer from Down’s syndrome, was aborted (terminated? quietly done away with? killed?). It was all very safe and scientific and sterile. Not only was there little danger to the mother, there was no harm to the other twin in the mother’s womb. The affected child (Is that an acceptable word? Should I say afflicted? unwanted? undesirable? useless? disposable?) was relieved of its life by being relieved of its lifeblood, which was slowly withdrawn through a long needle which pierced its beating heart. This was called a therapeutic abortion. The word therapeutic means serving to cure or heal. The strange part about this case was that nobody except the aborted child was ill. Who then was cured? Who was healed?

“Dr. Phillip Stubblefield, a gynecologist at Boston’s Massachusetts General Hospital, argues that a fetus is only a baby if it can live outside the womb. If we can accept this assertion, may we also assume that a patient is not a person unless ‘it’ can survive without, for example, dialysis or a heart pump? Is a machine somehow more humanizing than a womb? Is it possible seriously to believe that successful detachment from the mother is what turns an otherwise disposable and expendable mass of tissue into what we may legitimately call a baby?…Why all the fuss? Suppose we apply some of the arguments used in favor of abortion to the treatment of the indigent, the friendless, the senile. If there is brain damage or deformity, the fetus (read also the senile or the crippled) may be terminated. If the fetus’s becoming a person, i.e., being born, would be a serious inconvenience to the mother, or to other members of the family, it may be terminated.

“A sixteen-year-old high school student who has no prospect for a stable home and whose pregnancy will end her chance for an education is counseled to abort her baby. How shall we counsel a fifty-eight-year-old divorced man about what to do with his invalid mother? Taking care of her might end his chances for a lot of things. If we refuse to allow medically “safe” abortions, we are told that we thereby encourage “back-alley butchery,” self-induced procedures of desperate women, even suicide. By the same token, if we outlaw sterile injections of, say, an overdose of morphine administered to an old man in a nursing home whose “quality of life” does not warrant continuation, do we thereby encourage less humane methods of getting people out of the way?…What do we do with the gift of life? Shall we acknowledge first of all its Creator, and recognize the sanctity of what is made in his image? Shall we hold it in reverence? If any human life, however frail, however incapable of retaliation, is entrusted to us shall we nourish and cherish it, or may we–by some enormously civilized and educated rationalization–convince ourselves either that it is not a person, or that, although it is a person, its life is not worth living, and that therefore what we do with it is a matter of individual choice?

“We are faced with only one question. Are we talking about an object, or might it by any stretch of the imagination be a person? If we cannot be sure of the answer, at least we may pick up a clue or two from the word of the Lord which came to Jeremiah: ‘Before I formed you in the womb I knew you for my own; before you were born I consecrated you, I appointed you a prophet to the nations.’ To God, at least, Jeremiah was already a person. For my part, I will try to regard whatever bears the marks of humanity as God’s property and not mine.”

Obedience

Monday, February 16th, 2009

While this lesson is kind of about change, I think it is more importantly about our view of God. Abram, or Abraham as he will later be called, was an ordinary man. Up until this point we know very little about him. Having access to Scripture and knowing the majority of the story, we know what Abraham will become. We have the New Testament, which looks back at Abraham as a great man of faith, and we know that God chose to make a huge covenant with him and bless him greatly. We know of his miraculous ability to have children at the age of 99 with Sarah. We even know of his mistakes, one being his attempt to get things done on his own by having a child with Hagar. But the funny thing is, we forget that all this took place after he was 75 years old. What did he do in those previous 75 years? Why did God wait so long?

It seems that the purpose God had for Abraham was not to be fulfilled or even attempted until he was 75. Was he a slow learner so it took 75 years to get where God needed him to be? No, God’s plan was just a bit different than one we would have designed. What did Abraham do that was so extraordinary? The answer is much more simple than I would like it to be-he simply obeyed. I wish it was bigger than that, but that is not how God works, because God wanted the story to be about Himself, not about Abraham. As I read back over this story, I found myself looking past Abraham to see the rest of the story. The rest of the story is about a God that knows us, loves us and has a plan for us. I am at a point in my life where I want to see the bigness of God. I want to know that God can and will do what He says He will do. I want to serve a God that has a plan and allows me to be a part of it not because I am good enough but because He is my Father.

The beauty of this story is that we find ourselves at the same point Abraham did when he was standing at the feet of God wondering where in the world He was sending him. Not sure of the future. Tired as he thought about the trip ahead. Trying to explain to his wife they were leaving and going somewhere, he just didn’t know where yet. Try that one sometime-I am sure Sarah thought he was losing it! And then after knowing God’s promise was for him to have child, he waited for 25 years to have the child God promised him. Abraham accepted change and simply followed where God was leading. Certainly this lesson will help us handle change, but I think we also need to look at the bigger picture, and that is obedience to a really big God.

No matter where you find yourself right now: finding out God is calling you to something new, tired from the journey, or waiting for God to act, rest in the fact that He is God. Take the next step He gives you and see what happens. That is where I find myself this week-tired from the journey. Life is tough. Life is tiring. Having a two year old is tough and tiring! Being a husband is no easy task either. Feel free to join in at any point here. Having ____________ is tough, being ______________ is wearing me out. What is it for you? Take some time this week to quietly bow before a Holy God knowing He provides the strength, the direction and the courage. Just like Abraham, all we need to do is follow.